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Stay Awake Be Ready

12/1/2015

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Stay Awake, Be ready

There is a popular kids’ Advent song written by Christopher Walker called “Stay Awake.”  Although found in many church missals, including the Breaking Bread editions, it is NOT your typical hymn. 
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“Stay Awake” calls to mind the joy and excitement that children share as they wait for the birth of our Savior.  Walker even has rhythmic clapping built in (hint to music teachers!) to enhance the effect and make his point.  And although I tend to prefer ballad-type hymns during Advent, there is something about this little song that speaks volumes.

stay awake

​These two words alone are interesting food for thought when we apply them to Advent.  Many of us have dreams of the perfect Advent: a sublime mixture of prayer and spiritual activities, family get-togethers, snowmen, crafting, Christmas cookies, etc.  Sublime plan, indeed.  Reality?  Not so much.

​I don’t know about you, but my Advent preparations tend to be exhausting!  Our family greatly enjoys the many traditions we have developed over the years, but trying to fit them in with the everyday chaos of life is a challenge.  Sometimes, I secretly wish I could just drop one or two and replace it with rest.  But just the mere mention of this throws my family into a great stage of lamentation (not necessarily the wailing and grinding of teeth kind, but close).  How can we get the best of both worlds? And, more importantly, how can we make certain that we stay awake and focus on making this Advent one that God intends for us?


First and foremost, prayer HAS to be the number one priority.  Begin the day asking God to help you ‘stay awake’ and center on His coming.  Establish a time during the day that your family can stop and realign its Advent focus.  Our family loves to read special prayers at dinner while we light the candles on the Advent Wreath and sing a verse (or 2 or 3 if the younger ones pick it!) of a favorite Advent song.  There are many pre-composed prayers that can be found online or you can take advantage of the many beautifully written Catholic family Advent books that are out there.  Each year we try new ones, and the kids love taking turns reading or responding.  Then, as your day ends, take time to thank God for the immeasurable gift of His Son and ask Him to supply the grace needed to be adequately ready for His great coming! 



​Second, prioritize your activities and accept the limitations of family life.  There are enough Advent and Christmas opportunities to fill every Advent waking minute, but that doesn’t mean that God is calling us to experience each and every one.  As long as our prayer focus is on the birth of the Savior and we are viewing the holiday season through the lens of our faith, we have already satisfied the most important part of our preparations for Christmas.  This alone should give us peace and comfort as we take on the cooking, shopping, crafting, wrapping, Christmas tree hunting, decorating….and, well, everything else!

be ready

​Even with the knowledge that we have put Christ first, the strain of expectations can bring us to our knees.  For many, the getting “ready” part of this season of peace turns out to be the most stressful 4-5 weeks of the year.  Here’s a possible solution that takes little time to accomplish and might actually lighten the load. 

Quick Advent/christmas prep. list


  1. Make a quick list of each Advent prep activity and event in which your family plans to participate. 
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Divide the list into two categories:  Must Do’s and Want to Do’s.   Cooking, Shopping, Christmas Tree Decorating and the like can be inserted into the Must Do column.  Activities like Christmas Caroling, attending Christmas Concerts (not including those your children or family might be in, of course!), seeing a Nativity play, visiting St. Nick, etc., would probably find their place in the Want To Do column. 


  3. Rank:  Once completed, rank each column.  Your Must Do list will likely be things high on your priority list and those necessary to prepare for your Christmas celebrations.  Taking the time to prioritize these items may not be needed if there is little difference in priority.  The Want to Do list, however, is different.  This column typically holds the items that tend to put us over the edge during Advent.  This is largely due to the fact that each one whittles away at our time needed to accomplish the Must Do list, which in turn pulls away from sleep and rest, often steamrolling into one very cranky household. Seriously think through this list and rank each item according to priority for your family’s Advent preparations.  (Taking into consideration other family members can be a good idea, although it may lead to disagreements among the younger crowd.) 
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Rewrite the category by rank, starting with your number one priority. 


  5. Draw a horizontal line, separating the top most important items from the bottom. A good rule of thumb is to take the top quarter of the list (this would depend, of course, on how long your lineup is) and make it a plan to accomplish these activities.  If you find that these items are fitting into your routine rather smoothly, proceed on to subsequent items. 
 
The beauty here is that if you can successfully implant some items following the line, you can consider these as bonuses and know that you are achieving a better sense of balance.  More importantly, utilizing this list gives you a good indication that your family is accepting its limitations and that you are living an Advent that is more balanced and appropriate.  Do, however, recognize that these lists are not written in stone and have a good chance of evolving as Advent unfolds.  Let the Holy Spirit be your guide!

bottom line

Advent should be a time of prayer, family togetherness and peace.  The demands of today can make this seem more like a dream than reality.  However, with appropriate expectations, a dash of organization and a generous helping of grace, we can arrive awake and ready at the foot of the manger to adore the Newborn King.
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9/11/2019 02:46:41 am

You always need to be ready for anything. I mean, if you just lay low for the rest of your life, then you will only fear what can happen. You need to always stand in front of everything. If you just let the universe drag you around, then you will only get miserable. You are the one who should decide on what you want to do. Being ready for anything is one step to be ahead of what life has to offer.

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